Ghost & Exorcism | Hantu & Pelepasan

Hello guys, ketemu lagi di blog nan sepi ini haha... kali ini gw mau coret2 blog tentang hantu & pelepasan.. hiyy ngeri banget ya kayanya.... kenapa si gw bisa niat-niat amat nulis/nyari tentang isu tsb, hahaha karena gw terlibat di dalam pelayanan buletin tercinta WAVE Youth Ministry yaitu WAVE News Letter maka kali ini gw kabagian topik tsb... tanpa lama2 yuk kita simak :

Apakah hantu itu ada ?

Bonjour surfers, apakah kalian pernah berpikir tentang hantu? Banyak sekali film-film horror yang ada di dunia yang sering membuat kita takut dan seolah-olah hantu itu nyata sekali. Surfers, satu hal yang penting dan perlu kalian ketahui dan inget-inget… Hantu atau arwah yang gentayangan itu sebenernya GAK ADA, karena menurut alkitab orang yang sudah mati ga bisa gentayangan, tetapi masuk ke alam lain baik itu surge atau neraka, mereka ga bisa lagi berhubungan dengan manusia yang hidup, kecuali Tuhan yang perintahkan (Lukas 16:19-31)

Pertanyaannya : so siapa sich yang suka muncul dan menampakan diri dan mungkin sebagian dari kita pernah mengalaminya, itu tidak lain adalah si iblis yang nyamar jadi arwah atau roh orang mati lalu mempertakut kita hahaha…

TAKUT HANTU

Brosis tau ga sih lo apa kata Alkitab tentang takut sama hantu

“Di dalam kasih tidak ada ketakutan: kasih yang sempurna melenyapkan ketakutan; sebab ketakutan mengandung hukuman dan barangsiapa takut, ia tidak sempurna di dalam kasih” 1 Yohanes 4:18.

So, jangan sampai hantu mempertakut kita lagi apalagi mempersuram ;)

IBLIS SUDAH DIKALAHKAN

“Ia memusnahkan dia, yaitu iblis, yang berkuasa atas maut” Ibrani 2:14.

“Ia telah melucuti pemerintah-pemerintah dan penguasa-penguasa dan menjadikan mereka tontonan umum dalam kemenangan-Nya atas mereka.” Kolose 2:15.

Ayat di atas dengan jelas menyatakan bahwa iblis sudah dikalahkan dan iblis tidak punya kuasa apa-apa lagi, dia cuma bisa omong besar doang.

TAKUT AKAN ALLAH

Kita jangan takut sama iblis, namun kita harus takut akan Tuhan.

“Dan janganlah kamu takut kepada mereka yang dapat membunuh tubuh, tetapi yang tidak berkuasa membunuh jiwa; takutlah terutama kepada DIa yang berkuasa membinasakan baik jiwa maupun tubuh di dalam neraka.”  Matius 10:28.

Allah di pihak kita lho.. buktinya  “...Jika Allah di pihak kita, siapakah yang akan melawan kita?” Roma 8:31

Exorcism / Pelepasan

Istilah pelayanan pelepasan (deliverance ministry atau exorcism) muncul seiring dengan perkembangan gerakan Kristen Pentakosta dan Kristen Karismatik. Beberapa hamba Tuhan seperti Derek Prince, Frank Hammond, dan Win Worley berpengaruh besar dalam mensosialisasikan istilah itu. Guys, pelayanan pengusiran setan itu sudah ada sejak jaman Yesus dan para rasul serta gereja pertama. Pelayanan itu sendiri diajarkan oleh Yesus dan para murid-Nya. Alkitab mengajarkan pelayanan pelepasan dengan sangat jelas.

Menurut Dictionary of Pentecostal and Charismatic Movements, pelayanan pelepasan (exorcism) adalah the act of expelling evil spirits or demons by adjuration in the name of Jesus Christ and through His power. Pelayanan pelepasan adalah tindakan mengusir roh-roh jahat atau setan-setan di dalam nama Yesus dengan kuasa Tuhan.

Apa beda pelayanan pelepasan Kristen dengan pengusiran setan yang dilakukan dalam agama-agama atau kepercayaan-kepercayaan lain?

Pengusiran setan kita lakukan dalam kuasa satu nama saja, Tuhan Yesus Kristus (Mrk 16:17). Kita tidak memakai nama-nama lain untuk mengusir setan.

Pengusiran setan dilakukan bukan dengan kekuatan manusia, kekuatan pikiran (mind power), kekuatan jiwa (psychological power), atau kekuatan-kekuatan spiritual lain. Pengusiran itu dilakukan dengan memohon kuasa dari Roh Kudus (Kis 1:8).

Pengusiran setan dilakukan dalam rangka memohon kehadiran Tuhan, sebab ketika setan diusir, sesungguhnya Kerajaan Allah datang (Luk 11:20).

Pengusiran setan dilakukan dengan berpedoman pada Alkitab yang adalah Firman Tuhan. Alkitab harus menjadi “buku manual” bagi praktek pelayanan ini (band. 2 Tim 3:16)

SIAPA YANG BISA MELAYANI PELEPASAN?

Menurut Alkitab, siapa saja yang berkuasa melayani pelepasan?

Yesus, itu sangat jelas. Alkitab mencatat pelayanan-pelayanan pelepasan yang dilakukan-Nya (misalnya Mrk 9 :14-28).

Para murid Yesus (Mat 10 :8; Luk 10 :17-19).

Para rasul, misalnya Rasul Paulus (Kis 19 :11-12)

Setiap orang percaya. Pelayanan pelepasan itu merupakan tanda-tanda yang menyertai setiap orang percaya (Mrk 16:17)

ORANG PERCAYA BISA MENGUSIR SETAN

Mengapa orang percaya bisa melakukan pelayanan pelepasan?

Yesus memberi perintah supaya orang pecaya mengusir setan-setan (Mat 10 :8)

Yesus berjanji bahwa orang percaya bisa mengusir setan dengan menggunaan nama-Nya (Mrk 16:17)

Tuhan memberi Roh Kudus sehingga anak-anak Tuhan penuh dengan kuasa illahi (Kis 1:8).

Pada dasarnya, iblis telah dikalahkan oleh Yesus di kayu salib (1 Kor 15:27). Yesus telah melucuti pemerintah-pemerintah dan penguasa-penguasa dan menjadikan mereka tontonan umum dalam kemenangan-Nya atas mereka (Kol 2 :13-15)

Tuhan telah memberikan senjata-senjata rohani sehingga kita bisa memenangkan peperangan rohani melawan iblis (Ef 6 :10-18)

KAPAN SEORANG KONSELI BISA DILAYANI PELEPASAN?

Orang yang akan dilayani pelepasan perlu mempersiapkan diri dengan sungguh-sungguh. Sebab, proses pelepasan – sekalipun dilayani oleh para hamba Tuhan yang berpengalaman – bisa terhambat jika:

·         Orang yang dilayani itu masih belum merelakan sepenuhnya untuk benar-benar melepaskan diri dari ikatan roh-roh jahat itu. Misalnya tidak mau melepasakan jimat-jimatnya atau kebiasaan ritual satanisnya.

·         Orang yang dilayani itu tidak mau sungguh-sungguh bertobat

·         Orang yang dilayani itu tidak mau sungguh-sungguh percaya dan berserah kepada Yesus

·         Orang yang dilayani itu tidak mau berserah dalam pekerjaan Roh Kudus

Tuhan sendiri tidak pernah memaksa orang untuk mengikut Dia dan meninggalkan kehidupan lamanya. Jadi, Tuhan menunggu sampai kita rela dan berserah total kepada-Nya. Kebebasan baru diberikan manakala kita hidup sepenuhnya bagi Tuhan.

Sumber : http://pelayananpelepasan.wordpress.com/

Bagi kalian yang mau tau lebih bisa cek di link tersebut J Gbu

Jesus 'talking' to me.

Membaca judulnya, apakah kamu percaya? Hoho...
Kemarin, kamis 12 september 2013, gw mendapat pencerahanisasi dari one of my respectful mentor, gw diingatkan kembali tentang struktur hidup, yang dimana struktur hidup gw saat ini messed up dan harus segera diubah, sebenernya ngetik di blog ini jam segini jg sudah melanggar struktur hidup gw hehe, gw diingatkan kembali supaya secara sadar mengetahui apa sih yg penting dan yg harus gw prioritaskan saat ini, dan gw harus secara sadar juga mengejar dan mengutamakan hal tsb.

Gw ga akan byk curcol hehe, yg pasti skrg gw sudah diingatkan kembali apa yang penting dan gw bakal prioritaskan hal tsb, banyak distraction yg dapat menghalangi, tapi gw yakin bisa melewatinya.

Tuhan berbicara banget ke gw kemarin, dan di dalam hati gw juga berbicara 'kurang jelas apalagi?' Gw rasa kejadian kemarin itu benar2 Tuhan yg bekerja dan mengizinkan itu terjadi... I feel loved... Dan sesuai lagu sidney, I am loved... Thank you Jesus, terimakasih Bapa.

Ampuni jika saya byk melakukan 'kejahatan' selama ini...
Nite and Gbu guys.

Grateful and Faithful

Hola teman, teringat bahan komsel minggu kemarin tentang bersyukur dan beriman jadi ingin coret2 blog lagi hehe... Guys, kapan sih kalian merasa bersyukur terhadap Tuhan? kapan juga kalian merasa beriman terhadap Tuhan? Hmm...

Klo gw pribadi, merasa bersyukur kalo melihat orang yang lebih kekurangan daripada gw...
Misal ngeliat pengemis/gelandangan yang minta2... disatu sisi gw kasian ngeliat mereka, tapi disatu sisi gw bersyukur bahwa keadaan gw bisa dibilang cukup n tidak kekurangan... Hehe thanks God.
Bagaimana dengan kalian ?

Selanjutnya, gw merasa beriman ketika banyak masalah menerpa hahaha, kadang tuh setiap masalah di hidup kita ada untuk membentuk kita menjadi lebih kuat lagi... Dan ketika gw sudah ga bisa melakukan apa2, gw berserah dan beriman kepada Tuhan bahwa gw bisa melalui masalah tsb..

Mau curhat sedikit... Gw bukan lahir dan besar di keluarga berada dan ideal, bisa dibilang gw termasuk besar di keluarga yang 'broken home' karena pada waktu kecil, papah gw suka memukuli mamah ketika mereka ribut... Beranjak besar, waktu gw smp, papah sudah berhenti mencari nafkah... Lalu mamah mengambil alih peran pencari nafkah serta merangkap ibu rumah tangga...

Mamah susah payah membesarkan ke-5 anak berjuang dan bisa menguliahkan cici gw yg paling gede (gw 5bersaudara, gw bungsu)
Seiring perjalanan koko si mamah (ada 2), akyu gw, sering bantu dalam sumbangan dana biaya kuliah, karena si mamah mencari nafkah tidak cukup untuk membiayai keluarga, si mamah super sekali karena dulu semua usaha dijalani, dari jual beli motor, jual es kombinasi, jual parcel utk lebaran, jual indomie, kopi susu, sampe baju2 cimol, ketika cibadak mall terkenal...

Gw dulu polos n ga ngerti apa2, yg gw tau yaitu papah tidak mencari nafkah dan gw benci dia..
Gw sayang banget mamah... Tapi gw ga gt peduli sama papah, krn gw byk keselnya sama papah, gw sering bertanya2 di dlm hati, kenapa papah gw begini? Kenapa papah gw bukan orang kaya? Kenapa papahnya temen gw mah baik, ngajarin nyetir mobil, ngajarin usaha, membiayai keluarga, dan lain2... Gw merasa bahwa gw ga merasakan figur seorang ayah di keluarga... Walaupun papah gw ada secara fisik, namun gw tidak merasakan adanya peran ayah di keluarga gw...

Gw banyak menghabiskan waktu gw di warnet, karena jika di rumah, paapah gw selalu cerewet dan tidak pernah mengerti apa yg anaknya inginkan / butuhkan...
Maaf curhatnya kepanjangan....

Nah, dari hal tsb gw kadang beriman kepada Tuhan, bahwa walaupun gw berasal dari keluarga yg 'broken home' gw bakal memiliki masa depan yg cerah dan gw gamw seperti papah gw yang tidak berperan sebagai ayah, gw beriman klo gw punya figur bapa yang sempurna yaitu Bapa di sorga...
Walau sekarang gw byk kelemahan karena efek kehilangan figur bapa, yaitu gw kurang bisa tegas, gw plin plan akan sesuatu, gw ga bs marah krn gw rasa kadang marah dengan benar itu perlu...

Huh... Sedikit lega sudah curcol walau di blog hehe, pokonya gw yakin God never leave you, nor forsake you.
So bagi teman2 yang mungkin mengalami pengalaman atau keadaan yang sama seperti saya, jgn khawatir dan jgn takut yah, coz kita punya Tuhan yang infinite and beyond, Dia tidak terbatas oleh apapun, tapi kita sangatlah terbatas, secuil debu dihadapan-Nya, namun klo kita mengandalkan-Nya kita tidak akan kehilangan arah dan wasted life...

Tuhan bisa melakukan apapun, He can make nobody into somebody...
So, be grateful and be faithful in every circumtances.

Sekian dulu bloggin saya today hehe... Gbu :)

Falling in love... Again? What?

Haloooo sudah lama sekali saya ngga post di blog hehehe... Post terakhir di thn 2012 ketika masa galau melanda hahha, dan skrg saya rasa galau itupun datang kembali...sehingga membuat saya teringat kembali akan blog ini dan ingin menuangkannya...

Hmmm, mulai dr mana ya.. Pokoknya skrg ini pukul 4.20am hari selasa, dan gw blm bisa tidur brooooo... Gatw kenapa... Apakah rasa di hati ini yg membuat gw gelisah? Lol... Mungkin kali ya... Karena gw adalah pleghmatic-melancholic based...

Gw barusan confess ke Tuhan Yesus atas semua dosa2 dan keberengsekan gw yg org lain gak tau....
Dan gw mau hidup seperti yg Tuhan kehendaki, gw minta pimpinan Tuhan utk dapat hidup sesuai ajarannya... Apakah underlaw atau undergrace? Tapi gw rasa yg benar itu undergrace... Tapi undergrace yg seperti bagaimana? Bagaimana kita meresponi setiap dosa yg baik secara sadar atau tidak sadar telah kita lakukan? I hope God soon will give me guidance until I find the answer hahaha jd iinggrisan....

Kenapa sih serasa ribet banget ya hidup sbg org kristen yg katanya hanya dengan percaya, maka akan masuk surga.... Hmm dasar gw orang pemikir kritis, percaya yg seperti apa sih? Apakah percayanya gw sudah seperti yg Tuhan kehendaki sebagaimananya percaya yg menyelamatkan? Gw ga mau men selama hidup mengaku percaya dan mengimaninya, tapi ternyata gw menghidupi yg gw sebut percaya tsb salah dan tidak seperti yg Tuhan harapkan...

Gw saat ini mau membangun lg relasi dgn Tuhan dan ingin tetap seeking my struggling with christians lifestyle... Karena selama ini gw terlalu sibuk dan tidak seeking the truth...

And the last thing is.... I think I fell in love with someone, tapi masi galau nih apakah dia merasakan hal yg sama atau ngga, soalnya gerak geriknya rada aneh... N maybe she need some space kali ya... Gw terlalu ngebet tanpa memikirkan posisi dia yg mungkin masih blm siap untuk menjalin relasi hehehe.. Tuhan tolong saya pls, klo dia merupakan yg the best buat saya, izinkan saya juga bisa menjadi yg the best buat dia didlm segala kekurangan saya.... Huhuhu... Panjang juga ya saya ketik2 maklum asyik bru pertama x ngeblog pake ipad... Wkwkwk...

O yah, sy juga bergumul akan komsel yg sy pegang.. Gw gamw klo komsel gw ga bertumbuh, tolong sy Tuhan supaya dimampukan untuk menjadi teladan bagi anak2 komsel saya dan bisa melahirkan pemimpin2 yg dapat menjadi berkat spt timotius yg dimuridkan oleh paulus...

Sekian dulu deh ngegalaunya, sudah jam 4.35 wkwkwk c u mamen!

Emotional detachment part 2

Tonite I want to research about Emotional Detachment part - 2
because there is something very bothering me all the time...

Emotional detachment, in psychology, can mean two different things. In the first meaning, it refers to an "inability to connect" with others emotionally, as well as a means of dealing with anxiety by preventing certain situations that trigger it; it is often described as "emotional numbing" or dissociation, depersonalization or in its chronic form depersonalization disorder. In the second sense, it is a decision to avoid engaging emotional connections, rather than an inability or difficulty in doing so, typically for personal, social, or other reasons. In this sense it can allow people to maintain boundaries, psychic integrity and avoid undesired impact by or upon others, related to emotional demands.

First sense: inability to connect

Second sense: decision to not connect emotionally

Emotional detachment in the second sense above is a decision to avoid engaging emotional connections, rather than an inability or difficulty in doing so, typically for personal, social, or other reasons. In this sense it can allows people to maintain boundaries, psychic integrity and avoid undesired impact by or upon others, related to emotional demands. As such it is a deliberate mental attitude which avoids engaging the emotions of others.

This detachment does not necessarily mean avoiding empathy; rather it allows the person space needed to rationally choose whether or not to be overwhelmed or manipulated by such feelings. Examples where this is used in a positive sense might include emotional boundary management, where a person avoids emotional levels of engagement related to people who are in some way emotionally overly demanding, such as difficult co-workers or relatives, or is adopted to aid the person in helping others such as a person who trains himself to ignore the "pleading" food requests of a dieting spouse, or indifference by parents towards a child's begging. Emotional detachment also allows acts of extreme cruelty, such as torture and abuse, supported by the decision to not connect empathically with the person concerned. As a result, the decision as to whether emotional detachment in any given set of circumstances is considered to be a positive or negative mental attitude is a subjective one, and therefore a decision on which different people may not agree.

hmm.. I think I have to do some emotional detachment to some people I knew...

some quotes

Mixed up Feeling

Huff...hari ini gw ngerasa pusing, stress, takut n bingung... udah perwalian tadi siang, tapi gw ga yakin apakah gw bakal bisa ngeberesin KP gw... tapi hari ini gw bakal pelayanan di perayaan Natal "Hourglass" so, gw harus semangat! saya akan pelayanan drama sebagai "Mr. Shigan" tokoh "Waktu". Pray the best for tomorrow! Ganbatte Pei! Do the best for Jesus! God Bless me 0:) doain ya teman2

Some Quotes

Hey guys, udah lama ga post sesuatu di blog... n lagi abis ide nih... tapi gw mau bagiin beberapa quotes yg dulu pernah saya save karena menurut saya bagus... mohon maaf klo tidak mencantumkan author quotesnya, soalnya waktu itu cuma save quotes nya aja... :D

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WISDOM quotes

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Be happy. It's one way of being wise.

Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.

Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.

Wisdom is not a product of schooling but of the lifelong attempt to acquire it

Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living; the other helps you make a life.

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

I know what I have given you. I do not know what you have received

A wise old owl sat on an oak; The more he saw the less he spoke; The less he spoke the more he heard; Why aren't we like that wise old bird?

The key to wisdom is knowing all the right questions.

The highest form of wisdom is kindness

Wisdom is knowing what to do next, skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it.

A man only becomes wise when he begins to calculate the approximate depth of his ignorance.

We must become the change we want to see.

When an argument flares up, the wise man quenches it with silence

Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment

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LIFE quotes

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Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.

Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.

Experience is the name every one gives to their mistakes.

If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.

The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.

The world is a stage, but the play is badly cast.

For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.

He lives the poetry that he cannot write. The others write the poetry that they dare not realise.

The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.

One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure its worth watching.

Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.

The most important things in life aren't things.

To become a spectator of one's own life is to escape the suffering of life.

Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again.

Never waste a minute of your precious life by squandering it thinking about people you don't like

Only a life lived for others is a life worth while.

Sometimes it's the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.

How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.

Look at life through the windshield, not the rear-view mirror

Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.

When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.

Don't worry about life, you're not going to survive it anyway.

The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.

Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be.

Life is too important to be taken seriously.

When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard," I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?

The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

Contemplation often makes life miserable. We should act more, think less, and stop watching ourselves live.

Life is like a piano... what you get out of it depends on how you play it.

Of course life is bizarre, the more bizarre it gets, the more interesting it is. The only way to approach it is to make yourself some popcorn and enjoy the show.

Life is short, don't waste time worrying about what people think of you Hold on to the ones that care, in the end they will be the only ones there.

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.

You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you get what you need.

If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere.

In this world full of pain and sorrow, maybe once in a lifetime, you'll find someone who will make you feel wonderful. Hang on to that someone no matter what!

God allows us to experience the low points of life in order to teach us lessons we could not learn in any other way. The way we learn those lessons is not to deny the feelings but to find the meanings underlying them.

Don't go through life, grow through life.

When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.

Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Enjoy life. This is not a dress rehearsal.

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it

Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint you can on it.

I believe you should live each day as if it is your last, which is why I don't have any clean laundry, because, come on, who wants to wash clothes on the last day of their life?

Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not.

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring.

I really don't think life is about the I-could-have-beens. Life is only about the I-tried-to-do. I don't mind the failure but I can't imagine that I'd forgive myself if I didn't try.

If you live your life in the past, you waste the life you have to live.

Life is all about timing... the unreachable becomes reachable, the unavailable become available, the unattainable... attainable. Have the patience, wait it out It's all about timing.

Always do what you are afraid to do.

What makes life worth living is knowing that one day you'll wake up and find the person that makes you happier than anything in the whole world. So don't ever lose hope and give up, everything turns out okay and the good guy always wins.

When we remember we are all mad, the mysteries disappear and life stands explained.
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.

If I had to live my life again, I'd make the same mistakes, only sooner.

There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.

The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.

A person starts to live when he can live outside himself.

Life is one fool thing after another whereas love is two fool things after each other.

Each player must accept the cards life deals him or her: but once they are in hand, he or she alone must decide how to play the cards in order to win the game.

Experience: that most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God do you learn.

Life isn't weird: it's just the people in it.

The supreme object of life is to live. Few people live. It is true life only to realize one's own perfection, to make one's every dream a reality.

Life is thickly sown with thorns, and I know no other remedy than to pass quickly through them. The longer we dwell on our misfortunes, the greater is their power to harm us.

Life is suffering.

You never find yourself until you face the truth

Life does not accommodate you, it shatters you. It is meant to, and it couldn't do it better. Every seed destroys its container or else there would be no fruition.

I think of life as a good book. The further you get into it, the more it begins to make sense.

Think of the long view of life, not just what's going to happen today or tomorrow. Don't give up what you most want in life for something you think you want now.

Love is stronger than death even though it can't stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people from love. It can't take away our memories either. In the end, life is stronger than death.

Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.

I can teach anybody how to get what they want out of life. The problem is that I can't find anybody who can tell me what they want.

Kiss your life. Accept it, just as it is. Today. Now. So that those moments of happiness you're waiting for don't pass you by.

Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.

To me, there are three things we all should do every day. We should do this every day of our lives. Number one is laugh. You should laugh every day. Number two is think. You should spend some time in thought. And number three is, you should have your emotions moved to tears, could be happiness or joy. But think about it. If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that's a full day. That's a heck of a day. You do that seven days a week, you're going to have something special.

Life can either be accepted or changed. If it is not accepted, it must be changed. If it cannot be changed, then it must be accepted.

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.

Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience.

Life is inherently risky. There is only one big risk you should avoid at all costs, and that is the risk of doing nothing.

Only a life lived for others is worth living

Nothing in life is so exhilarating as to be shot at without result.

The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.

We love life, not because we are used to living but because we are used to loving.

The best things in life come in threes, like friends, dreams, and memories.

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LOVE quotes

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In love, it is better to know and be disappointed, than to not know and always wonder.

I don't want to live. I want to love first, and live incidentally.

Loving is not owning, thats why I let you go

Maybe part of loving is learning to let go.

In jealousy there is more self-love than love.


Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.

When love is not madness, it is not love.


Let your love be like the misty rains, coming softly, but flooding the river (paling canggih nih quote)

Do I love you because you're beautiful,
Or are you beautiful because I love you?

When a man is in love or in debt, someone else has the advantage.

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NICE quotes

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Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end

The worst prison in the world would be a closed heart

The day will happen whether or not you get up.

My strength is made perfect in weakness.

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.

I don't know why they call it heartbreak. It feels like every other part of my body is broken too.

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Invisible tears are the hardest to wipe away. Just let it out, my friend.

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars.

What soap is for the body, tears are for the soul.

We have no right to ask when sorrow comes, "Why did this happen to me?" unless we ask the same question for every moment of happiness that comes our way.

You can't run away from trouble. There ain't no place that far.

Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers.

If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere.

When it is dark enough, you can see the stars.

A problem is a chance for you to do your best.

Adversity enhances this tale we call life.

Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater.

The darkest hour has only sixty minutes.